Im gonna lose my sanity!

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Registered: 12-11-2004
Im gonna lose my sanity!
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Fri, 03-04-2005 - 10:53pm
WHEN WILL IT END, hubby came home and said his crew has been changed so the day i was gonna move out (14th) will not be happening!!! Im gonna lose it, when will it end, whenever i get excited, BOOM, the door slams in my face. I had it all planned out, all my movers were ready and everything, now i have no idea when i can go.....hubby might be going on a little trip on his days off around the 12th, so maybe than..i dunno, i got thrown off track, and im back in the hole again!!! not happy, not happy at all, and i dont know what to do!

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Registered: 12-11-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 11:17pm
Im not staying because than he would always bug me here, and I would feel better in a different place because of all the bad memories here, this truly is not home to me, I need to start fresh. He can have it, he will probably want to sell when I move out anways which does not bother me one bit.
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Registered: 01-12-2001
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 10:09am

Thanks Skorpio, I understand completely. Be safe and take care,

Luv, Sherry

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Registered: 04-22-2004
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 10:31am

From my quick judge of the posts, it looks like you may be moving out this weekend? I wish you the best of luck. I'm so proud of you at such a young age to know what you were getting into before you lived a life unhappyily like I did for 26 years. You're only 22. Oh, to be 22 again!!! You are so, so lucky to be getting out of this.

I've read some of your story. So, so similar too. Especially when I read you lost your best friend of 15 years. That was me too. At least I still have the other two lifetime friends.

And I'm responding to this post because, again, I know exactly how you feel about the house. I lived in one for 18 years. It means nothing to me. It's like it was another part of my life. I have no feelings when I go there to get dd. He's buying my portion of it out. He'll sell some day. It's not that I had bad memories there, though. That was my life then. I made that house. I'm sure he can't stand to live in it because that house was all me, but that's his problem. I started fresh and I love it. I even have a new sense of decor now.

Oh, I wish you the best of luck. I wish I did what you are doing at 22, but you can't go back so now I can just move forward.

Keep us posted,
Happy

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Registered: 01-12-2001
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 11:57am

Hi Happy, started about 5:00 (AZ) this morning and have been following you with all your good advice. Nice to see us two older and wiser women on the same path. No more bad turns at the fork of the road for us, right? I really am looking back and picking all the good things from my past, 9 out of 10, so to speak, isn't really bad. Memories look good with ex out of the picture. Well, just wanted you to know I am here too.

Luv, Sherry

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