I'm losing my kids to him

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Registered: 06-26-2004
I'm losing my kids to him
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Sat, 02-19-2005 - 5:35pm

I'm pretty much "losing" my kids to my abusive ex. My 7 yr old CONSTANTLY asks for him. She won't spend a weekend or holiday with me without making me miserable. She constantly wants to be over at his house. Part of it is because her best friend (stepsister) is over there.

I really don't know what I'm going to do. I can't enjoy the kids anymore because they are either acting out or asking for him. My 7 yr old calls him to pick her up early. I tell him wait until the agreed upon time to get her. Last night I told him that and his response was "I'm sure she is enjoying her time over there, LOSER."

What should I do? Should I just give him what he wants and give him the kids. I'm chronically depressed because of this. They cry cause they don't want to come back home. Should I just leave them there? Maybe it is the only way to get away from him?

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Tue, 02-22-2005 - 3:54pm

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