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| Fri, 04-02-2004 - 5:19am |
Hello
After another night of my husband yelling at me calling me every name pushing me around threatning me to break every bone in my body threatning my cats I simply have enough. I decided that it's time to reach out for somebodys help, but online. This is the first time that I reach out on a msg board. I tried to find a way out by myself, without success. I don't want this "relation" with an man who is so totally abusive (verbal). I have to get out of this marriage and start to life again, but how??? I have nobody in this country, originally I'm from Europe, I never worked in this country but would love to get a job. My Husband did not want me to do so, of course it's so much easier to keep somebody down without money, without friends, without anything. My Husband is an alcoholic, retired, no friends, no hobbys, no interest. All he does is drinking and I have to "live" my "life" around his drinking. I tried to understand it, I tried to ignore it, I tried to "fight" it but I simply don't want to life like this anylonger. I was in a shelter and they all where very helpful, but I have 3 - my only friends - cats and I can't let them here with him, they need me and I need them.
Can you help me? Where can I get info's how to get a job how to get an apartment how to get my feeds back on the ground.
Thank you so much for listening and helping me.
After another night of my husband yelling at me calling me every name pushing me around threatning me to break every bone in my body threatning my cats I simply have enough. I decided that it's time to reach out for somebodys help, but online. This is the first time that I reach out on a msg board. I tried to find a way out by myself, without success. I don't want this "relation" with an man who is so totally abusive (verbal). I have to get out of this marriage and start to life again, but how??? I have nobody in this country, originally I'm from Europe, I never worked in this country but would love to get a job. My Husband did not want me to do so, of course it's so much easier to keep somebody down without money, without friends, without anything. My Husband is an alcoholic, retired, no friends, no hobbys, no interest. All he does is drinking and I have to "live" my "life" around his drinking. I tried to understand it, I tried to ignore it, I tried to "fight" it but I simply don't want to life like this anylonger. I was in a shelter and they all where very helpful, but I have 3 - my only friends - cats and I can't let them here with him, they need me and I need them.
Can you help me? Where can I get info's how to get a job how to get an apartment how to get my feeds back on the ground.
Thank you so much for listening and helping me.

Jen
GOOD LUCK!!!
A shelter can definitely give you some great information.
Peace and hugs,
Cheryl =)
The minute you settle for less than you