I'm new here and need help from others who have been where I'm at!!

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Registered: 12-31-1969
I'm new here and need help from others who have been where I'm at!!
Wed, 09-19-2012 - 2:30pm

Hi All,

I don't really know where to start.  I've been in an abusive relationship for almost 3 years now.  I have lost my life, my self in the process.

I don't know what to do now because my partner threatens me continually.  He helped me get my current job (even after sending me to jail when I was self defending myself)....and now he holds that over me as a control mechanism.  I will send you to jail if you leave.  You never listen.  You are a horrible person.  You name it.  It's never HIM.  Always me.  I feel like I'm going insane.  I've left several times, only to give in to him and come back.  I wish there were something I could do to END this once and for all.  My story is much too long and detailed to cover in a post so I figured I would start somewhere.



Avatar for xxxs
Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010

This sounds like you will need a lawyer. 


Avatar for queen_brat
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003

I would contact your local DV center and see what advice they can give. I would look or a lawyer that specializes in DV and hopefully one he can't get his hands on

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