Im so confused by the things he is doing

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-06-2005
Im so confused by the things he is doing
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Sun, 04-09-2006 - 2:55pm

I told H that I deleted my AOL screen name that I used to talk to the other man on .I of course didnt ,bc I talk to all of my other friends on it as well ...but I created another screen name just to keep the peace ...

He is sending emails to my account (the one that he think I deleted ) saying things like "If you love him you should marry him " " I have someone else that loves me and wants me if you dont" " I reall hate you for not deleting this account ...and for still talking to him , i am not stupid"

So I call him ....and he is as sweet as can be ...THEN he goes back to writing all these emails (he doesnt know I am getting them ....Has he gone nuts?

Even though he tells me its not my fault... I cant help but feel it is in some way ,...he did tell me he needed me to do more, and that he wasnt feeling connected to me because of the distance ...But he really didnt give me a c

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-05-2004
Sun, 04-09-2006 - 9:32pm

No, he isn't nuts- well, no more than usual. He's just his same old controlling self. He didn't change and he isn't going to. He is TRYING to confuse you, and by letting him continue to contact you, it is working.

Once again, I cannot tell you what to do; no one can. But you need to be aware that, barring a miracle, it isn't going to stop, he isn't going to change, and you need to decide how you feel about that.

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