I'm strong but frustrated

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Registered: 12-30-2003
I'm strong but frustrated
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Wed, 09-08-2004 - 7:54pm
My H and I are divorcing but in that meantime, he is still trying to convince me to stay. He refuses to let go, and last night I had a scare. He had cornered me against the wall, which he has done before, to "make sure i'm listening"! He would not let me go after I asked and asked and I had to push him off. He still cornered me again but after a minute he let me go. If another minute had passed, I would have punched him i'm sure. I'm just afraid he won't stop next time. And to make matters worse, we are still living together. He was living somewhere else, but complained about how much it was costing and we agreed he would move back and try again. But, I was mainly saying it all to keep him quiet and now i'm considering how to get him out the house. He is a very persistant person and I really don't want to unsettle my child by moving if I don't have to. Any advice? thanks

strength76
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Registered: 11-12-2003
Wed, 09-08-2004 - 8:00pm

Oh, honey, I'm sorry.

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Wed, 09-08-2004 - 8:07pm
Dear cl-blueliner4:

I just wanted to give you a hug and big THANK YOU for always being there for all those and myself who post. It's comforting to have a place to turn and advice is always welcome. Thank you for taking the time to answer posts, knowing how busy you must be. This website is a blessing.

strength76