ITS OVER!!! i hope??

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Registered: 05-03-2004
ITS OVER!!! i hope??
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Fri, 06-23-2006 - 8:35pm
well ive ended it...or so i think...it all went down on the 20th of june when i had a major break down when writing a text for entry into the grad program at a university...i was taken to the hospital and treated for "shock" (not sure what shocked me but oh well) and sent home...i come home and my DH starts getting on me about the house being messy and im like, "ok ive been at work 40+ hours a week plus stuidying for my exam and trying to take care of the house and animals, you have NO job right now(on breakup at work), you have no other responsibilities, so why am i getting sh*t for it?" he then proceeds to tell me im 1. lazy, 2. fat, 3. useless, etc etc etc. I just tell him to get out and he says fine let me go get some stuff and when he comes back down i tell him its over i dont love u or want to be with u which he obviously didnt take seriously cuz he just left laughing at me. he then comes back later on to pick up rest of his clothes and i have a male friend over who he sort of knows...so he goe supstairs and gets his stuff then leaves an dim watching as he leaves and he waves something in the air...its my 400 dollar brand new freakin iPod and mycredit card(not a mutual one but one i have on my own; i ran outside and my friend followed to get my stuff back but he takes off. I yell that im going to call the police and he jumps out of his car, shoves me down on the road(my friends too far away to stop this right now) and tells me he'll "-insert many expletives here- kill me if i call the police"...but i ended up calling them and they write it off as a domestic dispute and tell me to cancel my CC...meanwhile he knwos ive called the cops cuz he drove by when they were here...so now im livin gin fear he will come back and the cops wont do anything about it unless he makes a threat against my life...uhh did he not already? i dont care if he was angry, look at the HOLE in my wall where he tossed me across my kitchen, or the various scars and bruises i have pictures of from the past...ugh juts so frustrated, scared and lonely! dont know what to do!
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Registered: 09-29-2005
Sat, 06-24-2006 - 9:15am

Congratulations on your newfound freedom, javlyn.

 

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Registered: 05-03-2004
Sat, 06-24-2006 - 1:58pm
hi there...i live in canada so we have city police and then RCMP however RCMP only have jurisdiction outside city limits...so im kind of stuck...but one police officer who helped me out alot when i was young(still in HS) is still with the police here, plus i also know two of the vice cops and have left messages for them to call me so hopefully something will get done...as they said, the iPod and credit card equal theft under 5000 which is like, minor...they dont even really care...but i did cancel my CC and put in a report of the type of iPod with S/N and theyll check pawn shops, etc. so...anyways yeh im hoping SOMEONE in the police will see that he is sick and needs to be stopped...someone needs to do something