It's a "whine" and cheese party!

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Registered: 11-12-2003
It's a "whine" and cheese party!
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Thu, 04-15-2004 - 1:23pm

Okay, it's Tax Day, the most miserable day known to the residents of the USA.

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 1:54pm
O.K. The main topic today.

Ever since I have been married to the sorry POS he has been financially abusive to me. He has kept me from buying things (even though I have a good job), he has withheld money from me so I'd have to pay all the bills, he has broken things I've had, he has hidden large amounts of money from me, he has bought anything he ever wanted. He is trying to get out of paying child support and is lying about his income. Thus, I have shown documents where he hasn't ran through his business checking account, and where he's hidden money. Now the worthless POS and his lawyer want me to come up with where I've spent money since last December!!!! Me, the person who has been paying all the bills and spent everything I've ever made on my kids and that worthless POS, has to show where I've spent money!!!!!!!

Back up!!! I'm throwing the whole set of glasses!!!!

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Registered: 04-18-2003
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 1:57pm
Oh Jackie..I am so sorry. *ducking from the glasses*

You know for some reason its always a win win situation for them and a lose lose for us.

I keep telling him...

"well the rich get richer and the poor get poorer".

He being the rich and me the poor!

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Registered: 04-04-2003
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 2:04pm

Have a few things on my mind and I hope it is ok to vent about them.

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Registered: 01-22-2004
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 3:43pm
i can really whin. oh how nice. okay, here it goes. i do have a full time job, three kids (which i'm supporting by myself). no time, no money, no support. wait, i have you guys. forget the last one. but, i'm free, so free.

well, not really. my h won't settle on the divorce. he has changed his mind. he only wants to keep anna 2 days out of the month and won't work with me on child support. says i don't deserve a penny of his money. but, he has money to take his new women out and buy new cloths but can't buy diapers for his little lady. somehow he has forgotten about her and how she needs him. oh, but when i try to call and talk this through with him he tells me to stop calling to leave him alone. so i don't call. i've left him alone. he makes me sick. SICK!!!!! i really don't like him.

okay i'm threw . thanks!!

mel

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Registered: 04-04-2003
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 4:17pm
At least you have a full time job and live on your own, even with your children, you still have a full time job and have freedom.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2003
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 4:24pm

Document it all, turn it into the lawyer.

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 01-22-2004
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 4:54pm
sorry wishful, i know you are having a hard time. with your mom and all. i've preyed for you. you stay strong and i'll keep you in my prayers. i was being selfish for a moment.

mel

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 5:18pm

Why does prescription medication cost so damn much in this country, anyway.

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 04-04-2003
Fri, 04-16-2004 - 7:21am

Oh my Gabby, your insurance provider must be the same as mine!! ;)

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Fri, 04-16-2004 - 8:34am
just wanna know why people cant accept others without judging, why cant people be opened minded. why do people think they know it all when they have no clue where you have come from. how can they possibly have all the answers. why do people have to hurt others? why do people say they "love" you and treat you so poorly? why cant i figure out what love is? why is love so confusing to me?

ok...this a whine? or feelings sorry for yourself?

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