just need some advise/is this abuse
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just need some advise/is this abuse
| Wed, 03-31-2004 - 9:45am |
I am not sure what is happening here.I got married 1 1/2 yrs ago to who I thought was my soul mate.We were happy for a little while then he just seemed to start being controlling and angry.I feel like in my relationship I have to walk on egg shells,He askes me to do things but they are never rght or done the way he would do them.
A few days ago he got so angry he grabbed my arms and put me against the wall and held my chin so I would look at him. He said he was just trying to get my attention.
He has gotting so angry he has thrown things in my direction called me names I can't even utter. He now blames me for the way things are going and he say's I am mean and cold hearted because I am so angry at the way he has been treating me. We have gone to counseling appointments for him to turn around and quit.He yells at everything, last night he couldn't find socks so he emptyed all of his dresser drawers on the floor then left for work.I am not sure what to do here,he is starting to make me feel like this is all my fault. any advise would be gratful.
A few days ago he got so angry he grabbed my arms and put me against the wall and held my chin so I would look at him. He said he was just trying to get my attention.
He has gotting so angry he has thrown things in my direction called me names I can't even utter. He now blames me for the way things are going and he say's I am mean and cold hearted because I am so angry at the way he has been treating me. We have gone to counseling appointments for him to turn around and quit.He yells at everything, last night he couldn't find socks so he emptyed all of his dresser drawers on the floor then left for work.I am not sure what to do here,he is starting to make me feel like this is all my fault. any advise would be gratful.

mel