Let Me Re-Introduce Myself

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Let Me Re-Introduce Myself
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Mon, 08-08-2011 - 4:00pm

I'm Adrianne (34), married to Ron (48), for just over 10 years.

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Mon, 08-08-2011 - 9:58pm

Hi Adryl and welcome back to the board.

Mama Harmony

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Tue, 08-09-2011 - 9:51am

Thank you for your response.

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Tue, 08-09-2011 - 4:09pm
Hi, Adryl! Welcome back! Many women mention that as they reached the point of their departure, their abusers sweetened up and caused them to hope that there had finally been insight, realization, a change for the better. Instead, abusers seem to have a she's-getting-fed-up radar, and when they recognize the symptoms of fed-up-itude, they turn on the charm. That should not invalidate everything he's put you through; it just means that he wants to keep his current victim (you) on a leash.
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Tue, 08-09-2011 - 5:38pm
by the way, can you edit your post to take out your login id and password. Better, please change your password as it is visible in the post.
I see the first post was in 2007 and then you had your child. So you see, things really haven't changed ..you contemplated leaving then and 4 years later you are still thinking about it and now you have a child. All I can say is there will always be the temporary good..but if you need to do this,it is always better to do it while the kids are young. You wait another 5 years, you will have another child, your abuse will be worse. And your children will be affected. So do this while things can still be turned around. Don't fall for the temporary good. Been there done that. Now regret it that I waited till teenage years. Things are 200% more difficult. Good luck to you. Best is to prepare now and get financially independent.
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Tue, 08-09-2011 - 6:12pm

I actually put that logon and password there on purpose.

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Tue, 08-09-2011 - 6:14pm

Geoteo - Someone else mentioned this to me today, and I think y'all are definitely right.

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Tue, 08-09-2011 - 6:17pm

Winter,

You're so right on so much of this.

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Tue, 08-09-2011 - 10:51pm

Hi again, adryl.

Mama Harmony

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Fri, 08-12-2011 - 8:37am

Hi adryl and welcome back to the board.

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Fri, 08-12-2011 - 2:59pm

How do I get to the board webpages?

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