Long sad, sick, pathetic, update ....

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Long sad, sick, pathetic, update ....
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Thu, 03-23-2006 - 7:38pm

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Registered: 09-29-2005
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 7:57pm

WOW.

 

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Registered: 05-19-2002
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 11:41pm

Bec,

I am always humbled by you. You remind me of my sister, in that no matter what her XH had put her through, she ALWAYS thought onl of her children and their love for hteir father. She too did everythng so that the kids could have a relatinship with their father.

I don't think that I could ever do it. I would see what he was doing as abusive and hurtful to the children and do everythng I could to stop the contact. While this too is right, because I would be protecting my children, you go above and beyond anyting and everything for Avery.

I hope that when she is older she will know and understand this, and love you all the more. You deserve it.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Fri, 03-24-2006 - 9:26am

Leah, thank you. I know it may seem to some people that i am putting his needs ahead of my dd's - i will be honest. IF i had the OPTION of her not seeing him - then i would keep her from him. The point is no matter what i do, no matter what documentation, or evidence, or info or suggesstions from therapists, the courts will NOT intervene. SO ... i have no choice but to let her go with him. Therefore, i will do my best to attempt to help him (from AFAR) see what he needs & what SHE needs from him.

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Fri, 03-24-2006 - 10:57am
Oh, good God, that idiot. FWIW, I think your approach can't hurt. If nothing else, it will demonstrate that you are trying to be compassionate and understanding towards him and he's not having it, which can only help your case. You've tried just about everything else under the sun, might as well give it a shot.
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