I know what it is like to be told so many times you are the one with the problem that you start to feel like maybe they are right. But from that message he wrote....does he really write like that? He sounds nearly illiterate. I am willing to guess communication isn't his strong point. I hope you don't allow him to convince you of all those aweful things because it seems to me that you are exactly the opposite...a beautiful intelligient lady. Keep yourself distanced from him in anyway you can because hopefully over time he will find something better to do than bother you. But don't underestimate the threat either. I agree that calling the police to help you get your things sounds like the best option in this case. An RO and blocking him from all emails, phones, etc will help as well. Take care of yourself and keep us posted.
If that is truly your picture and that is truly his email,I think you have given out too much info on this board. I think for safety, you should create another user name, no picture on the siggy, and just tell us in your own words what his email said, not the actual email.
I wanted to chime in here to be sure that you understand that warnings about sharing too much personal information are trying to protect you from some very real dangers - one link on the board website shares some ideas for computer safety.
While it's important that you do understand these dangers, I hope that you won't be frightened from receiving support and advice on this board! Most of the women here have been in your shoes at one time - and can react very passionately if they see someone making a mistake that they possibly made in their past.
Best of luck to you in finding peace and safety for yourself!
Hello TruePrincessK -
I wanted to chime in here to be sure that you understand that warnings about sharing too much personal information are trying to protect you from some very real dangers - one link on the board website shares some ideas for computer safety.
While it's important that you do understand these dangers, I hope that you won't be frightened from receiving support and advice on this board! Most of the women here have been in your shoes at one time - and can react very passionately if they see someone making a mistake that they possibly made in their past.
Best of luck to you in finding peace and safety for yourself!