*Maybe* he is coming to his senses ...

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*Maybe* he is coming to his senses ...
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Sat, 03-26-2005 - 4:05pm

but i am NOT couting my chickens!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sun, 03-27-2005 - 8:27pm
You know, its worth a shot. I will call atty 1st thing in the AM. I feel this is a fake out, but who KNOWS? Maybe we should strike while, IF, the iron really is hot.

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Sun, 03-27-2005 - 8:30pm

Dont i WISH. But what atty will take him with NOT A CENT? This guy is a childhood friend & is, I am sure, putting off the bill till settlement - when he can be paid by M after i pay him some cash out from retirment account, or whatever.


I hope the GAL gets going SOON. I cant WAIT for her to read his psyc evals & the marriage couseling notes. or MY documentatin over the years & since the divorce began. she may need to RETIRE after ! lol


I will trust my gut. NOT my heart, or what i WISH was true. My gaurd is up, WAAAAAAAAAAY up! Thanks!

R~

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Sun, 03-27-2005 - 8:30pm
As i said in above post, i will give it a shot if atty agrees!

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Sun, 03-27-2005 - 8:44pm
OMG, great idea. I will see if i can - but

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Sun, 03-27-2005 - 8:44pm
I will call atty 1st thing in the AM! Thanks!

R~

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Sun, 03-27-2005 - 9:43pm
Who says he'll get any portion of the house anyway? My divorce was contested and I got the marital home and everything in it. He walked away with all the debt he created. I got the home as lump sum alimony.
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Sun, 03-27-2005 - 9:48pm
Hmmm, Hope i AM as lucky. But we live in a 50/50 state. My atty says we can start fighting to divide assets at 70/30 (we have about 200K in equity in our home - but he says i wont have to pay out anything till i sell, remarry of dd is out of shcool, so thats good). He says i can pretty much count on, due to his "conduct during the marriage & his minimal financail contribution, i can pretty much count on a 60/40 split - but we will see if we can get 70/30.

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