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|Thu, 04-28-2011 - 3:57pm|
So last weekend, my decision was to somehow try make it through the next 3 years by devoting my time and energy elsewhere..here is what I am finding.
he still expects me to follow "his rules"..yes..so I can be somewhat of a go along with whatever..but I think that can only be to certain extent...Would you suggest I lay down my rules..and then be prepared to take the alternate step..if he doesn't compromise at all..I think that's what the legal rep wanted me to do..instead of a yes person..communicate what you will do or wont do..and see how he takes it. most likely he will escalate..I think as I write this..I am thinking.."people don't just change"..or even compromise..guess I was just trying to see if he meets me in the middle..I could have hung on..