Mental Emotional & Verbal abuse...HELP!
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Mental Emotional & Verbal abuse...HELP!
| Fri, 10-15-2004 - 3:10pm |
Hi, I just got married 2 months ago, but have dated my husband for 4 years. He is always calling me names like stupid and trash and things I won't even say here. We have been fighting a lot. Even before we got married. We mostly fight over money. He makes decent money and I am working part time and actively seeking full time work. But nothing is ever good enough for him. He says he will NEVER support me and that I need to pay my half. I would gladly pay for half if I made the money he did! I don't know what to do. He loves money more than me. After we got married we open a joint account. He has direct deposit go there. Well, lately he has been taking money and stashing it in the house somewhere so I don't have access to it. I don't go on shopping sprees, yet I don't know why he doesn't trust me. Today, I checked the bank. He just got paid this morning and he took out $1000.00 to stash away. He told me what was left in there that I am not to touch. I have no money left for food and gas and I don't get paid until next week. He told me to charge it on my credit card whatever I need and that it isn't his problem. Also, about a month ago, we had a fight over the phone. He told me not to bother coming home cause he had locked me out. I told him that I live there too and that I will kick in the window or call the cops if I had to (of course I would never break a window). He said he would shoot me. He does own numerous guns in the house, but I really don't think he would ever do that. It just hurt and I still think about it. Anyway, I'm desparately in need of some advice. If anyone has any, please email me at taf74@yahoo.com. Much appreciated. Thank you.

Hi Taf -
I've been trying to come up with an answer for your post since I first read it.
CL-Blueliner4