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| Wed, 01-04-2006 - 10:57pm |
Hello, I was wondering if anyone knows if you can still access the message archives from long ago? I was a poster here way back in '99 to '01! Just curious if there is proof out there that at one time I was dealing with an abusive husband. It all seems so long ago! I've been divorced from him for 4 years now, and living on my own, actually have a boyfriend at age 45!
Anyway, my 17 year old son has recently decided to seek therapy for his anger issues, and it made me think a lot about the past, and for some reason I started wondering if anyone would believe that my ex is abusive! He still is, of course, and he still denies it - he's already trying to blame other people for his son having anger problems, if you can believe that!
So I was hoping if I could get to the archived messages (you used to be able to), it would show concrete evidence that I went through hell with my ex, show what I was dealing with, and show that I know what I'm talking about! It's only been the last couple years that I've felt okay about sharing with other people that I was in an abusive relationship. No one ever knew, and most still don't really know the extent of it.
The gist of this is, I have the urge to look back through my old postings, and wondered if it is at all possible, or if those have been deleted.
Thank you! BTW, life is really great post-divorce! It was by discovering this message board and through the support of the people here at the time, and learning about abuse and its many forms, that I was able to change my life and break free. I feel like I've been given a 2nd chance at life, and though being single isn't ALL its cracked up to be, my life is definitely 200% better than it was! I wish every one here the same success at gaining freedom that I was able to get. Its worth the effort!

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When I read the email, I felt a lot better!
CL-Blueliner4
jeep and blue!!
Thank you.
I also found the first one.
I need to find more time to go back and re-read all my whinings.
Big changes are coming. I said ok to something, something that I don't think I really truly wanted, but it will be good in some ways. I just am feeling really guilty about having said ok. The ball is rolling - too far along to change my mind. So, I'm still in this marriage for awhile longer.
I'm trying to look at this as part of a long term plan. Hopefully this change will help us out finanicially and in a few years, well, maybe I won't be feeling so guilty, as this will be benefitting both of us, no matter what we choose to do with it in a few years.
again thanks for the hunting on my part for my "first post"
hugs to you both
ples
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