Mr.Nice

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Registered: 11-25-2006
Mr.Nice
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Tue, 11-28-2006 - 4:31pm

Hi, ladies
I'm new to this been reading and I can't believe some of the post is (me)My husband went to jail last year for 6 months violating the restraining order,after that they gave him 2yrs and 6months probation. My big mistake was letting him in when he got out. He never even apologized to me for anything that he did to me,guess he never will he says it was not like I said it was the violence the mental abuse. within the last few days we have had really ugly arguments, his things are no longer here in my home,he was recording all the arguments, he's come to my house banging on the door,scaring the girls, they run into my room, leaving really nasty messages, trying to scare me and believe me it's working, but I still can't believe how dumb I have been,I haven't called the police on him. I have 3 girls, 5,7,15 my oldest is from a privious relationship. I called his probation officer today, to see if she can talk to him not send him to jail, she tells me that i am the one who can get into alot of trouble because I've threaten to call her (P.O)over cell phone bills and him not giving me any money, that I am trying to control him, she says that he doing everything the judge asked him to do and she's would not recommend him going back to jail that she thinks we should get couseling,that he's actually a nice guy!! All I want is my child support and him leave me alone! Forget the cell phone bill I'll pay it. My mother says I'm stupid it's all my fault because if I just call the police he would stop, it's not easy to call the police. I guess I am stupid in that sense. he is so good and convincing people that I am crazy that I am the bad one and he's such a great guy! He's even told his friends and family and the probation officer that i take meds for depression that I'm crazy. I have stopped taking my meds, i feel fine. I am so sorry for just rambling on and on. I really needed to get this out.
I am glad i found this board.

Lisa

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Registered: 11-25-2006
In reply to: cubanmom_1762hi
Wed, 11-29-2006 - 3:26pm

Hi,
He was ordered to go to anger management classes as part of his probation, he goes every saturday. The course is called emerge, and they are crazy about him...
In my posting I said the he told PO that he says someone is living with me, he has pure hatred for my high school sweetheart, actually he hates anybody that cares for me, he says I have no friends, because they have all tried to make a pass at him!!!!
My friends just want to be in my business and they need to run their own lives, he got into a fist fight with my friends son, because he thinks the guy likes me, he looks at everyone especially men with the evil look if they even glance at me,SICK!!!!
He argues with everyone, he's always right about everything and nobody knows what they are talking about,that I am trying to ruin him,it's my fault he doesn't have his U.S.residence.
I am the biggest s___t and W____re in the world, his last message on the phone was I can have my girls(his daughters) and stick them up my p___y, get it? Then all of a sudden he started to apologize for saying things to me and that he just wants to be happy with his family.
I can't believe how stupid I have been to put with for sooo long. I am feeling strong right now, GOD, help me stay strong!

Lisa

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Registered: 05-19-2006
In reply to: cubanmom_1762hi
Wed, 11-29-2006 - 3:27pm

Hey Carrie...

The website is www.womanslaw.org

Don't want to correct you.. but this one will get to the right site :o)

Lauren

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Registered: 10-21-2006
In reply to: cubanmom_1762hi
Wed, 11-29-2006 - 7:20pm
I was counting on someone correcting me if I was wrong, I delete everything off the computer everyday and didn't have it. Thanks!

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