My 25yo D has LOST IT!
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| Wed, 05-04-2005 - 3:44am |
I've posted often on various boards about my 25yo D and her abusive nature to her kids, her siblings and me. Now my D has determined that she is going to devote herself to destroying me.
Just when I get a handle on normal stress she fills it up with her malicious insanity! I'm already a week late in my scedule to get to Yellowstone to get set up for my job because of the constant interruptions with phone calls or visits from CPS because of complaints she's "anonymously" made. I'd think they (CPS) would get a clue that all of this is founded in some other bs that my D is manufacturing.
I got an urgent phone call from DS this evening. He told me that he just endured hours of my D's ranting about me and how she is plotting to mess up my life. Her quote was: She thought you (meaning DS) screwed her out of a bunch of money in Australia (he did)...just wait until I get finished! She has all of my bank info that she got when I had my mail sent to her POB (before I found out that she has serious disturbances) She has also somehow found out what my pin is. THAT is a new one on me because I don't write it down anywhere unless she opened one of my bank card information letters or was watching when I used it once. She has a memory for numbers like a trap. That's how I'm certain she managed to use my SS# when I was in Australia. (I'm certain it was her because she did my Ex's taxes when she was living with him at 15. I only have one bank card but that wouldn't stop her from using my info to buy things online.
I've always been hyper paranoid and diligent, like NEVER buying things online using my ATM card except once when I paid for my car insurance, but she's brilliant and determined and hateful...and apparently very very greedy.
She's also stated that she intends to call CPS in any city I live in, call my work to complain, and will track me down anywhere I move just to cause grief for me?
I've moved my savings to a place where it's not accessible and continuing our move tomorrow. My son has already applied for a work transfer to be with his GF in another city even though he just started here and loves his job and they love him. She's driving everyone away.
I feel badly for him too because he came here to be a family and this is what we're faced with?
So what's up with BP? Is it automatically linked to abusive and criminal behavior? I know it must be so difficult for anyone that has this, but does this sound like an extreme case or is my D certifiable? I'm honestly afraid for the first time that she is capable of much more than just trying to steal my money.
Please help me. What can I do?
Thanks
April

First off, April - Welcome back.
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