My Ex wrote me an email..
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|Wed, 12-12-2012 - 9:42am|
For people who dont know my story I was married for 10 years to a very verbally and emotionally and sometimes physically abusive man.. We divorced in 2007 and somewhere down the road because of my extreme codependency we became somewhat friends... I havent spoken to or seen my ex in a very long time.. He moved to another state and in with his gfriend of a few years..I assumed maybe he changed but I really dont know..and I dont care (really??)
The other day he sent me an email asking me how I was and how we survived in Hurricane Sandy and all.. I am not sure what to make of it but he did say he and his gfriend havent killed each other yet and that all was fine.... At first it stung because I was thinking maybe he did change and they are happy but then I had mixed feelings about it and then it completely went out of my head.. because most of the time I am doing very well...
I know what you all will say to totally disengage and block him but I really okay and very indifferent towards it all. Heck its been so many years and so much water under the bridge and I could care less about him.. Actually I would care if he died because I would inherit a ton ofmoney (long story)and I was thinking I would like to live in the apt. he built for free onto our old marital home.. Right about now I need a place to live so thinking it could be an option.. No one is living there except some family in main house and I might have to be caretaker as ex rented it all out and he cant have strangers living there. Oh; Bingo maybe that is why he wrote.. He was always up to something.. (lol)
So do I find out or just let it go.. I really am in dire need of a place to live though..
thanks for listening...