My knight in shining armour an abuser?
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My knight in shining armour an abuser?
| Wed, 07-28-2004 - 2:54am |
well you all remember my last post, i hope.
JIM.
Yeah, Mr. Wonderful.
Well he got upset at me the other night.........long story.
The next thing I know he was emailing me and i was emailing him back. We were both being childish fighting.
HOWEVER, he starts typing: F you, you STUPID f-ing bitch!! and going off.
Im like WHOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA, where did this come from.
Now Im like what the heck?????? Is this an abuser??????? BIG RED FLAG?
I didnt get an apology.
I got this: YOU PUSHED ME TO IT PAM.
So now.............im figuring I am going to have to ditch him like almost immediately. 3 months down the drain.
what do gals think??

good luck
Trust yourself. You have come a long way. You have gone through healing. Anyone in this world whether they've been in our situation already or not can meet an abuser. It's what you do with the information when it's presented to you. You did NOT deserve the language he used, nor the back and forth emails (I'm sure yours were trying to focus on the issue ... not abusive), and last "you PUSHED him to it???????" Major red flags. You have worked too hard to get where you are today. Do what you need to do, hold your head up high and be gentle with yourself. Although it's disappointing, thank goodness you saw these signs NOW and do not go into denial then get hurt worse, start doubting yourself, go another 10 years, TOTALLY lose you ... Thank goodness you are aware today.
You're in my prayers.
Kathy
Okay, I held off a Python joke last night, but I can't hold this one off...
RUN AWAY!
CL-Blueliner4
Of course he's an abuser. Good men do not talk to people like that.
Three months is nothing. Hanging on for years to a brute is another story.