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|Sun, 04-03-2011 - 8:54pm|
So this morning, as i am making breakfast, I hear lots of altercation upstairs from him and DD..i keep quiet..after a while I go upstairs to see her books on floor..I said who did it..she says he did it..he is not acting nice. i let it go..she is also in bad mood..after another hour..I see him inside her room making a phone call. she is irritated as she is reading a book and wants him to go..in turn he grabs her hand and pushes her against the bed. After call is done, i say to him (in normal voice) not to touch her and get so upset for her teenage behavior. He says - never come between me and her and I should mind my own business. I said never lay a hand on her again..(to that effect)..he then comes close to me..and keeps saying to me..'you bit**'..again and again and comes close to me. I get real scared and back off. He then leaves the house. DD comes crying to me..and I tell her all about cycle of abuse and how he is and how she should come with me so that we can make a safe home where we can choose to do what we want..and not always have to cater to him and his abuse.
All she does is keep crying and telling me NOT to do anything..and she realizes what he is and I should not interfere and it is only 4 more years..and she will be gone to college. She keeps crying and crying..I dont mince words..I said I do not want a day to come when in 10 years she will be treated this way from her husband or BF. she says that is not happening..I said what about me..If I continue like this, I wont be around in couple of years..already I get heart palpitations and stress overload. She just keeps crying says to me to NOT do anything..and not disrupt her life. I said it is already disrupted..and it will get worse. Anjyway..whole day/evening she is crying and crying..
Finally in the evening..he comes back..and takes her out and then she comes back all happy.
WTF? Someone tell me what I did wrong or what to do next....Thanks again for your support !