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| Tue, 04-26-2005 - 2:54pm |
I am usually on another board, but had a incident with my husband that I need advice on. I have been married three years, I would not say that violence is usually a part of our marriage, but in the last 8 years we have known each other, in a heated argument, have become violent with each other only a few times. Just last saturday, we have having an argument and he told me he didn't want to hurt me, to leave him alone, let him leave, I wouldn't. He pleaded, tried to walk around me for about 40 minutes and I kept getting in his way. We made it to the door and that's when he grabbed me. He choked me. Threw me to the floor. I know I should have let him leave. I feel immense guilt about not letting him leave and I keep thinking that what happened to me, the marks and bruises could have all been avoided if I let him do what he begged me to do, is that wrong? I have a huge temper, but over the last couple years have been improving at controlling it. The argument the other day, I didn't touch him...

Hi goddess, welcome -
I hope you reported that to the cops.
CL-Blueliner4
Honey, this is now beyond marriage counseling.
CL-Blueliner4