NERVOUS WRECK

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2004
NERVOUS WRECK
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Thu, 01-06-2005 - 7:19am
Hi guys, I am a nervous wreck, my husband is coming home tomorrow and I am just freaking out. It has been 3 months of non stop battling, name calling, rage and tears while he has been gone. It has been countless phone calls and emails that have driven me to want to leave and he is coming home tomorrow and I dont know how to deal with it. He is am alcoholic and hasnt been able to drink for 4 months and I have no idea what the furture holds in that respect. I have always thought the bad behavior was becasue of the drinking but I have learned over the course of the last few months it is not. It has been an emotional rollercoaster for the last few months and I need help dealing with him coming home
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2004
Thu, 01-06-2005 - 10:48am
God pack up your stuff and get out of there before he comes home! Got to a friend or relatives house and don't let him know where you are. He will do nothing but come home and drink himself into a tizzy and then tell you that you are worthless, and might just go ahead and beat you. I would get out now while he is not home cause once he is back you will probably not be able to leave. Good luck
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2003
Thu, 01-06-2005 - 12:37pm

Have an "emergency kit" ready (important papers, a change of clothes, spare keys and some cash) and keep your cellphone charged - fully charged.

CL-Blueliner4

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2004
Thu, 01-06-2005 - 1:04pm
I liked your comment at the bottom about the " man haters" , that cheered me up for a bit.
He has never physically hurt me, bullied me a few times but never hit me or my kids. he just runs his mouth. He knows I want to leave him but wants to "talk" when he gets home. i dont plan to stay, its been over for awhile. I think that he is just trying to screw with my head and try to change my mind.