Nervous,,,,he has a court date

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Nervous,,,,he has a court date
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Mon, 08-30-2004 - 10:59am
I am very nervous he just called me and told me there is a court date set for him to get more time with his son. It is set for September 20th at 1:00. Very nervous about it I don't know if his X wife will bring up our conversations or not. Just really nervous, things have been so good and today is the first day of school for me I don't need this now. The lady in mediation said he would get everything he is asking for if they had to go to court. He just wants to switch a few things around his X wife said no to all of it in mediation. The mediation person paints him like he is this saint he is a very good dad but...Oh i just don't know. Anyone have any encouraging words for me. A couple weeks ago he was on to me about how i need to fix things with his X wife (basically so she won't bring any of our conversations up in court). Scared to death right now thanks for letting me vent
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Mon, 08-30-2004 - 2:37pm

Just stay out of it.

CL-Blueliner4

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Wed, 09-01-2004 - 4:18pm
Yup as much as I hate to admit it I know Happy times will soon be over. I think i just needed that little reassurance if you kno what I mean. Thanks for letting me come here and vent. Things have been Ok for now but this is just the calm before the storm and I am prepared for it now. However on a good note I started school on Monday and a lot of people keep telling me that this will boost my confidence. I can already feel it working I think. He hhasn't been home much these last few nights so it has actually been kind of peaceful at my place. Anyway I will keep you posted thanks again!