The New Stepmom

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Registered: 06-26-2004
The New Stepmom
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Sun, 02-20-2005 - 4:33pm
The abusive ex got remarried last month. In a sick way, I can't wait for the day she leaves him. It would show me that there is nothing wrong with me. I see she is his newest little slave. She does everything for him. You would think she would get sick of being stuck watching my kids as he comes and goes over the weekend. I haven't seen any signs yet that he is abusive to her yet though. Do you think this new marriage could possibly work when he was so abusive to me? Or do you think she will eventually leave too?
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Registered: 11-12-2003
In reply to: jodyannrn
Tue, 02-22-2005 - 3:21pm

Simple answer - yes and don't know


Do I think she will be abused?

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 06-26-2004
In reply to: jodyannrn
Tue, 02-22-2005 - 5:43pm
I totally agree with you on the PTSD, I constantly replay things in my head and what I could have done differently in the marriage. I am seeing a counselor to help me through this, although I have only seen him once so far. He already has taught me some ways to combat ex's manipulation and PAS of the kids. I go again next week.