No turning back now! He was just served
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| Mon, 02-21-2005 - 4:26pm |
the Divorce Papers! (NOT that i woudl have turned back anyway!)
I totally didnt expect it b/c its a holiday here AND they told me Tues or Wed. I JUST got an email from the asst to my atty, telling me they were going to try to serve him today ... that email was written just now, BUT, i got a call an hour ago, from BIL, that M was just served & is out of his mind. He is freaking out b/c this initial paperwork asks for all kinds of "temporary orders", including SOLE custody. THAT is what he was freaking most about. I cant lie, my heart hurts thinking how devestated he must be - but he did this to himself. All i said to BIL was "Listen, i in NO way intend to keep Averey from him, unless he is being crazy or drinking or emotionally damaging to her. I am doing what my atty says is best right now. He needs to call his own atty so he can hear what this all means, in laymans terms." & that was the end of the conversation pretty much. Oh, except BIL saying "So, is this it? Is there no way that you can give him some sort of guidleines of what he needs to do so maybe this whole thing can be turned around". Yeah, let me do that - NOT.
Needless to say i am not sleeping at home tonite. I work until 12 am (Ave is sleeping at a freinds) & will run home, with someone with me, grab the dogs & go stay at my freinds. & i will do that strait thru court on Thurs for the RO & supervised visitation.
I have a rash, I am nervous as hell ... but i am relieved. THE WORST IS OVER ... or at least the worst that *I* had to go.
R~


WWWWWWWWWOOOOOOOOOO GIRL!