Ok, got some answers ......

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Ok, got some answers ......
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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 3:10pm

Get your coffee, this is gonna be a long one!

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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 4:01pm
Well it looks like things are a little better today and that's good. I hope M has some sense this weekend and doesn't make an a** ofhimself in front of his daughter. If I were you I'd not encourage him to live nearby-- just let him move on and away from the both of you. Your daughter will be better off in the long run and you will be able to heal emotionally and get on with your life too. Children are amazingly resillient and bounce back quicker than adults do when traumatic events take place. When she is an adult you will be able to talk about all of the stuff you went through with M and she will be able to see things through your eyes. And... it's good to know that you had the foresight to record, make copies and keep good records of what had been going on. I applaud you for that!!! I hope that in time, you will be able to put all of this behind you and have the kind of life you deserve-- filled with joy and laughter and most of all-- PEACE! God bless you. Let us know what happens at the yard sale this weekend. I hope M does not show up and you make a lot of $ and buy that trampoline! Later, Deb
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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 5:06pm

Have the counselor on alert.

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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 11:03pm

That settles it for me. AHL and STBX are twins. Even have the same name. I am fast developing a phobia of ones with that name.

I have the same problem with a little boy who desperately wants a father and an AHL that doesn't take any responsibility for his actions. One part of me says 'what a relief' to think he will remove himself forever, the other feels for my son and how it will hurt him. But all you can do is let it go and work on giving a happy, safe home for the child. These twits are who they are unfortunately.

I hope you raise the money to buy the trampoleen..lean...trampi...the springy thing because I think that is just wonderful that daughter will be helping by selling lemonade. I bet she has a really fun time.