Ok I have had all I can take

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Registered: 05-14-2004
Ok I have had all I can take
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Fri, 04-08-2005 - 7:37am

Some of you may rember my post about my kid being abused buys her ex-boyfriend
And the school not helping it been well over 2 months now.the first time she left him she took him back at the time I didn’t know it was because the school consular made her fell bad about ending it he spend most his time in the consoler’s office crying about the brake up and the consular made her fell bad to take him back so she didn’t have to deal with him I didn’t say anything about jenny taking him back at that point I didn’t want her to hide it from me but did tell her she cloud only see him here or at school .
A few day later she asked me to say I ended it that I would not let them date as I felt it was getting in the way of her school work.wach I did she told me not to even let the school know that it was her that wanted to end it I didn’t ask why just thought she was scared it would get back to him we thought buy telling him if they cloud stay away 100% for a few month I would think about letting them go back together but if either one tried to talk it would not ever happen hoping that he would stay away them be over her after a few month and if not I cloud just say no way. well the first day I did that he tried to talk to her she told him no say away so he went agene to the consular office and had them call me asking me if I would let them get back together that day I said no she put him on the phone agene I told him he couldn’t even talk to her at school then the consular got back on the phone asked me if they cloud talk at school I told the consular not at all I didn’t even want jenny taken out of class to deal with him she is their to learn not make some guy fell better at this point the school all ready knew he hit her 2 times at school they knew that before the first time they got her to take him back. well with in mints of talking to me and me say no she can not talk to him what did the consular do? Got jenny out of class and told her she should take him back when she told her my mom will get mad she told her it was ok to not tell me that she would not let me know they are back together
Well what the consular didn’t know was that jenny would tell me she came home and told me what happened boy was I passed off called the school and they said that the consular would be in trouble for this and would not be the consular for either kids anymore
Guesses what she still is she told me the reason she did that was she as the consular
Clouds not get thought to him she thought maybe jenny cloud I told her off (if we cannot get him to undersanted how can she).
He called here 5-10 time a day I would not answer it he is getting very upset at school will not leave jenny alone he at the consular everyday all day crying that jenny will not talk to him he telling everyone how he is going beet her and her friends up.
They call me from school everyday the good thing is they will not make jenny talk to him anymore. he wants them and me and her dad make her sit in a room alone with him so he can tell her how he fells she her self weeks ago got on the phone with him when he called told him it was not just me that ended it that she does not want him to leaver her alone
Their was nothing he cloud do to get her back and all he was doing was scaring her.
So their so no resone for her to have to talk to him ever agene. one of the time he called from the consular office that he just worried that she going to date some other guy and he doesn’t like the guy that this guy isn’t right for her I told him that was up to me to say who she can or cannot date.(she isn’t dating anyone).
Anyway the school still will not do anything right before they got out for Easter brake
The consular called agene wanting me to talk to him I told her no I will not do it anymore it is not helping the school cop was in the room trying to tell him why no mater what he think he is doing this for will get him in trouble I hard him yelling in the background that he was going to kill her and some other kids at that point the cop said he was being taken out of school and would not be coming back well he never was scent home he still is giving her a hard time but the school just keeps saying she has nothing to worried about we did get a PPO along with some of the other kids and their parents
Still he is massing with them and it only been 2 day back to school from brake.
Well he still massing with them at school and trying to call her they do nothing at school and because he uses other # to call from I have no proof for the cops.
Jenny is in track Tuesday was her first home meet guesses how came to it
The school did nothing because he said he was their watching other friends that was in track but he keep yell go jenny go so I called hubby up their as soon as he seen him he took of still giving her a hard time at school .she said that she sees him in the hall ways buy her class that are not in the seam grads so his class are on the other side of the school no reason for him to be their she said he hides in the corners. he even went in her class yelling that he loves her and just wants to talk the teacher had to tow him out I have been up their trying to get them to infors the PPO but they all ways say he not doing anything like the class he told them he was their to see the teacher the teacher even after what the teacher told them. Well she will not be going to school agene not their because today I turned on the news to see her school they found a hit list for her school on the net that talked about killing all the kids on the list.gusse who was on it my jenny and all her friend even some that was his friends and the school consular! He still not in jail
They say they are looking in to it they have already been told when this all started that he has a lot of guns in his home he can get to.
With all the saying he going to kill them to the school them self’s and the names that are on the list are all the seam kid and the seam consular you would think they cloud at lest hold him in jail why they “look in to it” they said they have to let him stay in school at this point from what the cops have been telling me tonight their was one other boy that took a gun to school a few weeks ago and pulled it out in the gum they tried to have the cops let him go they didn’t. but the cops say at this point till they are done looking in to it there is not much they can do and it up to the school to let him stay if they want they have taken all the computers in his home. And have a cop sitting out side the house tonight.
My baby is scared to death right now and so am I I will be suing the school as soon as they get him I have seen the list I am not dum I know 100% it is him. For one jenny is very much liked at school buy everyone and why would everyone he all ready said he was going to kill be on it. this weekend I am taking her to my sisters out of town for some time I have to come back but I will miss her so much and don’t want her to thing I am trying to get read of her or am upset with her but I just don’t know what I can do.
A few days ago their was a 14 year old at another school that had a list of kids names on it. It did not say anything about hurting them and he was a good kid they say but some other kid said he was told it was a hit list and he is now in jail so why is this kid not
If anyone knows anything more I can do places help. she is so mad at me she doesn’t understand why she has to be the one to give everything up she will be of track now that I will not let her go to school. she cannot be with her friends and now has to leave her home to we got in to it a bite when I told her what I have to do. she told me she would have to deal with it her on her Owen .I told her I know it worrgn that we as the women are the ones that have to give up are way of life but she not the only one. she told me she just wants to go to school and live they way she did before that if he does kill her I would learn to live with out her.
Sorry this so long but I am about to just lose it

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Fri, 04-08-2005 - 1:49pm

Jenny, if he has threatened your daughter's life (which he apparently HAS, verbally and in writing), you and your husband need to lay on the police department to help protect your daughter - get a criminal restraining order against him if you have to (it sounds like you may have a civil order).

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Fri, 04-08-2005 - 8:00pm

Oh man, is this kid ever a psycho!!!!

Mama Harmony