paranoid

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Registered: 03-26-2003
paranoid
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 1:26am
I just ask my dh why he keeps things from me and he says he only tells me things that concern me and wont tell me anything I could use against him. He won't tell me such simple things like days he is taking off for work using vacation days and if I didn't do the taxes I would not know how much he made an hour as he won't tell me. He accidently told me that he loaned his mom money, something that is unusal as she has money and has never asked for money. Its not like I would be telling her not to give out money, its just an odd thing that she even askede for money. I don't even care, kwim? Its like I am not a part of his life, like i am not his wife and he could care less about including me in on those things. He won't tell me about his family at all. I seldom see them anyways so its not like I ever even talk to them anyways. He drinks all the time. He works swing shift so he gets up about 1 pm and has coffee then about 2 pm he starts drinking on the weekends, when he works he drinks after work until he goes to sleep. Is this just part of the paranoid thing with drinkers? I was at my sister's and came home and he tells the kids, I miss you but I didnt miss your mom. WTF?