PFA Today and proof of another woman
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|Fri, 02-18-2011 - 5:07pm|
We had our PFA today. He had a cross one against me. He actually had a picture of him with a 'black eye'! I swear it looked like make up, and I KNOW I didn't do it..he had his texts printed out and because some of my texts had profanity, my lawyer said it would be best if I just agreed to the PFA, instead risk getting a judge that would find me guilty of something, etc...And let me be clear..my texts would read along the lines of 'You're never here for your visits w/ the baby, no you're not coming to my house now, stay with the wh_res your with and leave me the f_ck alone..and that can be 'intimidating'..I cannot believe the nerve of the picture of his 'black eye'! And he had his mother and friend there, I guess to say I hit him!!! And the date of the pic is Sept and in his PFA claims he said I hit him in November or something..but my lawyer just thought it best I didn't risk it. And honestly, I am glad I didn't risk it, as I believe I would have gotten too emotional in a trial.
He asked for custody, for me to pay costs, etc. and got none. I just agreed to a pfa..so no guns for me for a year..oh darn.
He quickly agreed to my PFA, I was loaded with real evidence, and he has state supervised visits with our 1 yr old. I have to call about them..this is the last thing I wanted..I had such hope for us, having her...but we just weren't worth him changing him. I've needed him and he completely let me down. Was so awful to me, when i kicked him out, he went into partying, never visiting his baby..no help when i was incredibly sick..and when he used me all up, he just escalated so so much in anger and disrupting our lives..oh, I've typed it out before..NOW, when I was looking over his text 'evidence' I saw texts from, obviously a woman- making comments about 'we'll get thru this together' 'love u baby'...in Jan and just Feb 5th he was saying he wanted me back, he'd give everything up and loves me..
But it was another kick in the gut to see it in black in white. Being with