Please help me keep focused..

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Registered: 12-11-2004
Please help me keep focused..
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Wed, 01-05-2005 - 3:50pm

Hi everyone,

I am currently in a abusive relantionship, more emotional though. But I just came to reality of it on new years, I have only told my sister, I am going to a counseller on monday. I have a plan to leave him a couple months. But latley today has been the worse, its like im waking out of a coma and i dont know how to live with him. He has his nice days, like today he is being a total sweetie, how do i contiue to hate him?, deep down inside i hate him but than theres that voice, "aww he is so sweet today"..should you really leave him..any advice/suggestions would be nice.

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 3:54pm

Hiya -


Short post, I need to dash to take care of something:


Make a list of all of the things he says and does that make you want to leave, all the things you hate about him.

CL-Blueliner4