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| Tue, 04-20-2004 - 10:54am |
Hi all. I am so ashamed to have to be telling you this, but I am a month and a half pregnant with Kevins baby. He wants nothing to do with it at this point in his life, so I am stuck raising it on my own and I don't know if it is fair to bring a child into this world knowing it's father wants nothing to do with it. People say he'll change down the road or maybe when he sees him or her, but I doubt he will. He is not ready to grow up, he has told me that himself. He says he is not financially able to take care of another child. Well, either am I but I don't know that I j\have any other choice. He is so worried that I am gonna disrupt his happy little life he has tried to put back together with his wife. I am gonna tell her since he is moving her into the house we shared together, she has a right to know. He talks about doing what is right for his daughter, well what about this baby? It didn't ask to be brought into this world. I am just so confused. I told my stbxh and obviously he is furious since we are still legally married. He keeps asking me how I am gonna raise another kid on my own and he does make some valid points, but I don't know that I could go through with the other options I have. Christina



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As far as his wife, a lot has happenend in that situation. He has been lying to me for the last month saying he isn't moving her up here into the house. Well, Sat I drove by, my bf lives on the next street, and they were there moving her stuff in. I called and left him a message saying to not worry about me or this baby and have a nice life. I didn't mean it, it was all my emotions going crazy. I know it probably wasen't my place to call her and tell her, but I did. I left her a message yesterday and finally about 9:30 last night she called me. She thought I was lying to split up their marriage and he couldn't be man enough to tell her it was true. My friend then called her back and told her everything about how I have still been seeing Kevin and how he has been lying( may have been bad idea) well, I guess she left him and is moving her stuff out of his house supposidly this coming weekend. I just didn't think it was fair of him to move her up here and get all settled and then let her find out. He should have been man enough to tell her so she could make the decision to move or not. I know Kevin will be here for this child, he isn't the type to turn his back, he grew up without his dad and wouldn't put his child through what he went through.
Reality check time.
Whether she's innocent or not, or what she does, she is still legally his wife.
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