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Registered: 05-03-2003
Question?
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Wed, 04-28-2004 - 7:48am
Hi, I have not posted in a couple days. A lot has happen. Where to begin. First ex has been calling all the sudden for my son saying that he wants to see him. I finally gave in and let him take my son on Sunday to a birthday party. He droped him off eveything was ok I guess. He had called me yesterday and asked me where his son was I said still at school. Then he starts asking if I have a new boyfriend and he wants to meet him. Why? He has a girlfriend in which he is getting an apt with. I told him I was heading over to the store my bath tub was cloged. He said he would come over and fix it. I said ok. Why did I do that. Well he came over and we ended up having sex. For some reason he was really nice and we got a long. This is the first time in weeks. Well his girlfriend kept calling and he left. This was the same girl he cheated on me with a month ago when we broke up. I amsort of confused by all this. I do really miss him but I know he is not what I want in my life. I am not even sure why I did that yesterday. Myabe to prove to myself that I could still have him. I dont know. He seems like maybe he is missing me or something. He asked me to try and not be mean to him before he left too. What should I make of all this? What is his motive? I don't know. Really confused. Need some advise.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2003
In reply to: crk21
Thu, 04-29-2004 - 1:16pm

Crk, if you keep allowing contact, you will lose your RO.

CL-Blueliner4

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2003
In reply to: crk21
Thu, 04-29-2004 - 5:48pm
ABSOLUTELY!!!!

Sarah n/t