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Registered: 05-03-2003
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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 6:25am
What would happen to him for violating the restraining order? They said we would have court and he would get arrested but he is out on Bail for everything that he did to me. Does he go back to jail?
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Registered: 04-04-2003
In reply to: crk21
Fri, 04-23-2004 - 8:02am

Well, in most cases, if he violates the RO again, then he will usually go back to jail.

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Registered: 05-03-2003
In reply to: crk21
Fri, 04-23-2004 - 8:27am
thanks for replying. My problem is that I feel bad or like it is my fault in some way. I do not want to see him in jail but he needs to understand that I need my space to heal. I know we have a kid together but it just seems to me that he is just using him to get to me. I have allowed him a couple of times to try and hang out with our son but everytime he either does not show up or he came over and harrassed me calling me names and such. I keep think I am the bad one here and I am keeping him for talking to his son. For the first 2 1/2 weeks he did not even call my son or even ask to see him at all. He did not even call him on Easter or anything. Know all the sudden he is calling but everytime I give in and give him a chance to pick him up he ends up harrassing me in some way or I end up getting very upset and feel guilty about the whole thing. If he really want to see his kid wouldn't he have come over when his son talked to him and picked him up? I am so confused right know and he knows this. It is very hard for me to move on. I am still having a hard time seeing him with someone else too. Do you think he will leave me alone and do you think he is using my son to get too me. I keep think maybe I am overreacting and maybe he really wants to be in his son's life. I am so confused...
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Registered: 11-12-2003
In reply to: crk21
Fri, 04-23-2004 - 1:05pm

No, you hit the nail on your head in the other post.

CL-Blueliner4