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| Tue, 01-18-2005 - 9:49am |
DH is taking the plea agreement. Guilty to a felony charge of domestic assault. He was let out on $500 bond with no contact except for "civil" phone calls and therapy. He hasn't called and I don't think we'll be doing counseling either. So I've had no contact and it is a struggle. I find myself wrestling with lonelyness and other feelings. But I'm doing good. I haven't called him.
His sentence will be a treatment program and 5 yrs of prison over his head. (But he won't have to serve any more time .... for now). At first I was relieved that I wouldn't have to testify and go through a trial. But then after I saw how arrogant dh was during court, I thought I made a mistake. That he should've heard the testimony and heard the judge make a decision. Instead he took the plea agreement and probably still thinks HE'S the victim. "Momma, she hit me first. She was drunk, momma."
I'm trying to put things behind me and more forward. For now that means continuing to read the book "Boundaries" by Henry Cloud and work on healing my own wounds. And spend less time thinking about or worrying about my husband.
Thank you for your prayers.
Loonybunny
