Reading these Posts...

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-24-2005
Reading these Posts...
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Thu, 04-28-2005 - 12:42pm

Reading these posts I see so many similiarities. I don't think there are any decent men out there anymore. After finally ending my abusive marriage of 7 years, I ended up in a relationship with another man who turned out to be much much worse than my husband ever was. I finally ended this last relationship after I had to put a restraining order on him.

I'm to the point where I never want to date again. I have found you can't trust anyone. These guys seem charming and everything you could ask for...at first. It's really scary. That's how they gain control. Then after a few months, you finally see who this person really is, and it' s hard to get away.

I found that I'm much happier being alone and away from all the drama. I couldn't handle that ever again.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2003
Thu, 04-28-2005 - 1:20pm

Hi again -


Feeling this way really isn't that uncommon among abuse victims.

CL-Blueliner4

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2005
Thu, 04-28-2005 - 1:34pm

I'm with Blue on this one all the way.

5yrssm