Remember my MIL? ... Oh Boy! ...

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Remember my MIL? ... Oh Boy! ...
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Tue, 06-14-2005 - 7:06pm
I receieved an email from her this AM (she lives in FLA & I am in RI, but she will be back in RI next week) ...

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 7:34pm

Is there anything left in the cannon?!


Holy schnikes, girl!

CL-Blueliner4

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Tue, 06-14-2005 - 7:55pm
I read a book once titled, "That takes ovaries".
5yrssm 
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Wed, 06-15-2005 - 8:46am

MIL's reply i just got:


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Wed, 06-15-2005 - 9:40am
Hrrrmmmmmm.........do you think he had his mother email you?
5yrssm 
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Registered: 11-12-2003
Wed, 06-15-2005 - 12:47pm

Interesting answer on her part.

CL-Blueliner4

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Wed, 06-15-2005 - 1:38pm
Nah, they dont even really speak to tell you the truth. Occassionally they do though.

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Wed, 06-15-2005 - 1:40pm
Yep - my gaurd will stay up - jic. see my response to above post about the possibiilty she was put up to it. Thanks~
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Wed, 06-15-2005 - 5:17pm
That was great! How long were you waiting to get that off your chest! I can just hear my mother in law when reading what yours said. Mine was always very insulting and manipulative (geez, just like her son). To her son she would say one thing about me and to me she would say another. She was practically on her death bed when she made a remark (that my husband still throws up at me after two years) questioning whether or not I loved him when he was gushing to her about how much he loved me. Later on, knowing she was wrong, she got me aside and gave me her 'reason' for saying that. I used to get very upset when she and my husband ganged up on me...pointing at all my faults, what a bad mother, inadequate wife, rude, lazy and selfish person I was. They used to have me wondering how I got to be this bad person that I never knew I was. Then one day I finally woke up and realized that THEY were the bad ones. Anybody who derives pleasure or just feels better about themselves when they are making someone else feel bad - THEY are the ones with the problem. After that anything she said - or he said - bad about me just rolled off.
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Wed, 06-15-2005 - 5:49pm

Thanks, its funny, it wasnt like i was dying to get that off my chest (i didn think anyway)-

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Wed, 06-15-2005 - 5:52pm

Can i just tell you? I peed my pants with the canon comment! roflmao


Its funny, i dont think i will lose his family. He was never EVER close to his mom or most of his sibs. Its was only me who kept the contact, & if it werent for me, & left up to him, she would never see or hear from my dd. Literally, she lives 3 miles from us 6 mo out of the year ... last summer, i was at her house about 2 times a week w/ dd ... STBX? Not ONCE. The year b4 that, he went maybe one time ... for 10min. He has NO sense of family in that respect. Doesnt give me much hope for how he will end up with dd down the road. R~

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