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| Mon, 05-03-2004 - 3:04pm |
Our 18yo son moved out on Friday, oh hubby is mad, he doens't have him here to punch and yell at anymore. Son called me on my cell phone while at hubby's company's picnic on Saturday, one of his coworkers overheard me talking to him, and so told hubby about it. Hubby came home at lunch with his panties all in a wad, yelling at me for hiding things from him, clenched both his hands into fists and got right in my face yelling that I am a "cow" and a "Bitch", picked up one of the chairs from the table, I thought he was going to throw it at me, but he didn't, fortunately, he didn't lay a finger on me, just yelled and threatened. I hadn't told him about our son calling, he left hecause he was tired of getting yelled at and put down all the time.
Thought he was going out of country for business next week, but that got cancelled. Which is both good and bad, Bad...that's when I was planning on leaving, Good...now the youngest can finish school this year.
But I always get so confused after he rants and raves, alot of what he says seems to make sense at the time. But then I think about it, and it's just being manipulative, or am I being manipulative like he says. I never know.
All I know is, he yells at us, calls us names, threatens us, sometimes punches us or throws things, is controlling about where I work, and what I do and who I talk to. Forces me to have sex with him when I don't want to. Maybe this isn't abuse and I am blowing all this out of proportion like he says. I just don't know anything anymore.

It sounds awful. You have to take steps to protect yourself and your children. Do like your 18 year old and split.
Good Luck
Sarah