ROUGH day!!! But a victory for me!
Whew! I'm so glad today is almost over! H was supposed to come home this morning (he went off to some concert with his idiot friends last night, rather than spend time with the kids, but that's another post...) and take Spencer (3 year old DS) for tonight so I could catch up on schoolwork, and because Spencer wanted to see him. Well, I got a call this morning from him. He was at his brother's house and saying that he was sick and couldn't drive home.....yeah..right.... Somehow though, he was able to help his bro's wife haul a bunch of boxes up and down three flights of stairs? Whatever...he wanted to stay down with his brother to watch the NCAA Championship game. Fine, bail on the boys and me, again, whatever. However, Spencer was VERY upset when he found out that dad wasn't coming to get him. I called H and told him this and that I was done with all of the selfishness, I couldn't take anymore and the boys didn't deserve it either. Well, he then starts in on me about EVERYTHING that's wrong with me! Going from how I am trashy to what a bad mother I am! He even went so far as to say that Spencer was not very well taken care of before we got married! (spencer is his son, but was born a year before we got married). Then, he tells me that my mom has called his parents and informed them of the situation, that he's not living at home, and he's VERY mad about it. All this time he's been going on about how his dad will get him a good lawyer and he won't have a thing to worry about. WRONG! He was mad because his parents informed him that he will not see a DIME from them and that they WILL NOT side with him!!!! SCORE ONE FOR ME!!! I know this because his mother called me right after I'd talked to him. I was crying because he had been so mean to me. She was very sweet and basically said that he is delusional if he thinks for one second that they will support him in anyway through this or that they will help him to get custody of the kids or get out of child support.