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| Fri, 03-11-2005 - 3:01pm |
Court was this morning. AHL's lawyer told mine yesterday that AHL had flown back to the US at noon that day. So, as we expected, he wasn't there. My lawyer talked to the judge yesterday and told him as much. However, when his lawyer stepped into the court room, she apologized to the judge that her client wasn't there because he was "sick" with a "fever". My lawyer and the judge looked wide eyed at her and asked "but I thought he was in the US". She seemed embarrassed and there was some argument about where he was. We found out it was Poland again. Why are those two lying all the time? What is the gain?
The judge asked why the divorce couldn't be settled. His lawyer said because I was demanding for payment back of what he took from my own account and that was unacceptable. The judge didn't think so. More arguments between everyone. Then the judge finally asked me if I could settle for only 1000 in cash upfront. That to compensate the 2200 he took from my mortgage payment. I was reluctant but was tired of this. So I agreed. However, when his lawyer called him on the cell, he refused. After taking 40,000, he argued that I didn't deserve anything because I was living like a queen and ruined his life. The judge made the offer again, only this time he said if AHL didn't accept, he was filing a police report for AHL committing fraud by applying for financial aid from the government to pay his legal fees. The consequence is jail time. He ranted and raved over the phone but relented. I walked out by noon a single. It was agreed no spousal support, no pension distribution, and he pays 1000 cash before 14 days. No cash means the police report goes in again and jail time.
In my opinion, this completely demonstraits what a petty AHL AHL is. To fight over 1000, refuse to pay child support (still hasn't but not enough to attack him yet), takes over 40,000 after the divorce started, takes over 90,000 over 2 years before it started...And he pitches a fit over 1000 that was mine because of being part of my February paycheck anyway. I supposed I could be scolded for letting him get away with as much as he has, but I figure getting the pension part fixed and single again was worth quite a bit. The property and custody will be decided at different dates. He has been making phone calls around today, trying to grab whatever else he can. He was still trying to get ahold of one of the funds which hadn't paid out yet but which I had thought I was able to stop payment to. Still have to call Monday to see if they will send it back to me. He called my employer trying to demand a job again as well. He whines the restraining order was lifted on my work and that they can't stop him from working there now. Good try buddy, but you don't get that they don't want to hire you....duh.... I am tired. This wore me out. At least I am single again though.......

Who does this guy think he is?