Saw the ex tonight
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Saw the ex tonight
| Fri, 04-08-2005 - 8:51pm |
I hadn't seen the ex in a long time. Stepmom has been doing the transporting of the kids back and forth for months now. This was one of the rare times I have to face him anymore.
After not seeing him for a long time, I just look at him and wonder, was he really that bad? It's easy to forget all the times he was so mean. All the times he hit me. He looks like someone you wouldn't think would be abusive. He's always clean cut and well dressed.
Can anyone else relate? Do you ever look at your abusive ex spouse and ask yourself if it ever could have worked out? Do you ever look at him and think, was he really that bad?

Yes, sometimes i look back on photos - someone was visiting tonite & looking at our wedding album - & i think "What went so wrong?" & then i remember, b4 we were even married, he once, in a drunken stupor, raised his hand to me. He never hit me, but that should have been threat, & SIGN, enough, for me to just KNOW then.
Thanks for asking. Yep, still quiet.
R~