Should I do this?....

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Registered: 09-26-2005
Should I do this?....
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Thu, 09-29-2005 - 3:13pm

I don't know if you all have read my other post or not about my husband....
But I got an offer to move into another apartment that my best friend owns in another town. It's ten minutes from my job, as of now I drive 43 miles (1 hour) one way.
My husband doesn't know where this apartment is, and I don't have to pack anything except my clothes. I would have to pay all the bills like normal, I do now.
I want to know should I do this? I have almost convinced myself to, but I think I need that support to get me going. I could be moved out in less than two days. Logically I know what I need to do, but I am so scared that I am going to miss him.
I'd have my own place, 2 bedroom, just me and I kinda like that. But I am just really scared, can someone tell me why?

(It's kinda like that tattoo that I am going to get on Friday that he never wanted me to have.)

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Sat, 10-01-2005 - 6:10pm

My happy dance has become WAY too long! (And I realized it's a dance I can do by myself!)
I am amazed that this has lifted such stress off of my shoulders. I am currently singing at work!

THANK YOU ALL~

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Sat, 10-01-2005 - 9:35pm
I can tell you feel like you have had this huge weight lifted off of you.
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Sun, 10-02-2005 - 1:30pm

You and your son are certainly welcome anytime! :)

Honestly, this is great. I don't have anything except a love seat and clothes, but I have my pride back, and the fact that I can walk without being on eggshells.

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Sun, 10-02-2005 - 1:35pm

Oh, and cl_wishful, I got a wonderful bit of ink on my lower back. It's my chinese symbol for truth, and as corny as it sounds, I use it kinda to remind me that I need to be TRUTHFUL to myself before I can be happy.

Much love and thanks,
L

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Sun, 10-02-2005 - 1:54pm
Oh girl, that's not corny at all.
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