should i take him back?
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should i take him back?
| Wed, 01-12-2005 - 1:43am |
I have a question...Im kinda stuck and dont know what to do. I married my husband in 2002, we were both 18, just out of hs and we had a daughter who was born later that year. We were together a year before we got married. He was never abusive or hurtful. As time went on, he joined the army, and even a few months before that he became very verbally abusive, and started pushing me around. I was fed up with it so i kicked him out sept 5 of last year(our daughters 2nd bday) he was horrible to me. Always lieing to me about what he did, where he went what he spent money on...he had been out of the army since april of last year and i was the one working, supporting us, while he "watched" our daughter. Id come home home and he would be on the internet...looking at porn chatting with women...stuff...and have the nerve to tell me he wasnt...I cant even explain all that he did to me, he was very hurtful to the point i wanted to kill myself, but my daughter kept me alive. he never did anything but that and playvideo games..he never thought Id have the strength to leave him, but now he claims he knows what he did was wrong, he never knew what he had until he lost it...i guess my question is, can a guy change in just a few months? he says he has. but id have to move to ohio, from florida , because thats where he's working now. Im just kinda scared to take the risk though i do believe he has improved.

My answer to this would be NO.
And the reason I say that, is because I speak from personal experience.
Hi Christina, welcome -
I'm in agreement with everyone who has posted to you so far.
CL-Blueliner4