So angry .....

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Registered: 10-10-1998
So angry .....
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Fri, 04-05-2013 - 6:25pm

Even with him dead and the world safe from him  he is still causing grief!! My oldest has his temper I will admit to that but she told his mother not to bash me and let her know right away what she thought about him and I even tried to help her out by emailing her and letting her know if she wanted anything with my oldest she had to stop talking about him. But she refuses to. Every email she sends DD it is aimed at defending him. I understand he was her son and she is grieving his lose but she tried to say he didn't go to jail for hurting a child. Um the &^*&^)(* was a registered sexual offender and it said the victim was under 16!! I talked to either the ds or states attornery the day he plead guilty to it!!

Maybe I made a mistake by not telling DD how this women really is? Maybe I should have told her but I hoped that she would have changed and though DD should figure it out for herself but now I wish I had better prepared her. I can't stop dd from having contact with her seeing as dd is less then a month from being 19 but I did suggest she stop and block her from emailing her on facebook. Let the witch go tell everyone how cold hearted we are and how life was worse for that prick because he was so sick then us because I had welfare to help me. GRRRRR!!!

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Registered: 10-22-2001
Fri, 04-05-2013 - 8:01pm

~hugs~

I think your dd will eventually figure her out.

My dd is beginning to figure my ex-mil out...finally.

Nightangel
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Registered: 10-10-1998
Fri, 04-05-2013 - 9:53pm

she figured her out and stopped herself from telling her to rot in hell with her son .......... This women claims to love them but hasnt once asked anything about any of them

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Registered: 10-22-2001
Sat, 04-06-2013 - 7:04pm

Same here...:(...

Maybe they are related...lol...

It doesn't bother ds too much but it did dd especially when she was in the hospital and neither her dad or grandma came to see her and then my ex-mil lied.

Icing on the cake!

I hated her for hurting dd.

I won't forgive her ever for not going to see dd and then lying about not knowing.

Nightangel
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Registered: 10-10-1998
Sat, 04-06-2013 - 9:21pm

my oldest was the only one who knew her so i think the others will be fine never looking them up. i disliked this women before this but now i hate her 

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Registered: 10-22-2001
Sat, 04-13-2013 - 12:11am

~hugs~

Nightangel
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Registered: 10-22-2001
Sat, 04-13-2013 - 12:14am

Kind of like my dd and ds.

My dd is older so she remembers her dad and his mom and my ds doesn't remember living with his dad or really for that matter my ex-mil...

I think it's been hard on both of them but different.

Nightangel
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Registered: 10-10-1998
Sat, 04-13-2013 - 11:07pm

I am so proud of my dd. She pointed out to me how she knows it was hard to be a single parent to four children and she couldnt get over his mother thinking he had it worse then I did. I told her not to worry about it that she can think what ever she wants I dont care and how there is no convincing her otherwise. I helped dd write one last email to her grandmother after her grandmother told her she guesses she is no longer her grandmother. Dd had realized ex mil never once asked about any of them all she wanted to do was shove him down her throat. So we told her how it was a shame that she couldnt see past her grief to  even ask about any of them. I know it will do no good but dd wanted to say it and didnt want it to come across as angry as her other emails have. No response but sometimes it takes her awhile to respond.