so confused, questioning myself...HELP!
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so confused, questioning myself...HELP!
| Tue, 08-24-2004 - 7:54pm |
Ugh....I believe my husband is emotionally/verbally abusive (I posted about this yesterday, I think) Anyhow, so today I went to OASIS (local abuse intervention organization). I told them what was going on and they agreed that not only was he emotionally abusive, but also sexually abusive (he holds me down and gropes on me while he masturbates if I won't have sex with him and gets off on the fact that I am begging him to stop).


My advice to you...Read!! Get as much info possible on abuse. Keep it to yourself. Do not discuss it w/him. Trust me, he'll never understand. Unless he wants somehting from you and feels his reasoning might make it happen. These men never change. Believe me!! Once you are ready to leave make a plan. Make a safety plan. It might be better if you don't tell him you are leaving. But, work that out in time. I would go to the shelter and start some type of counseling. Find a counseler who specializes in abuse. Big hugs to you!! Good luck!
Mel