Stbx still botherin me...help!!!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Stbx still botherin me...help!!!
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Mon, 05-09-2005 - 1:44pm
Hello: to all I am back again. I used to be on here as rainn..the old me. LOL But I don't wish to be back..I hope u know what I mean. I thought I was doing well. Here goes; I finally have a 3 yr PO on my ex..I went to court in Nov. 04 well it seems to exerbate sp? things when he knows there's an existing PO well there always was but....this past friday he shows up a the kids school sponsored activity..w/his mom n his new victim? I called the cops but he left the area b/f the cops actually got there...I was very angry w/him n his little childish antics..he actually drove 22 hrs..jus to give the kids "presents" according to him..(their b-day presents) which consists of socks/2 t shirts/vests n easter baskets w/plastic eggs n chocolate..this is what he calls presents n deems necessary to drag his woman n his mommy?? Now tell me what his ulterior motive is? I know for some of u who know of my former situation he harassed me over the phone etc...etc. I was very angry at first but I am calmer now..and I know that telling his boss or whomever prob isn't gonna make much difference...he was ordered to pay 300 more on his cs which he hasn't yet??? I need some hugs first lol n then some good advice...I am moving on w/my life but he just doesn't seem to get it yet/?? What do u suggest I do to have him stop..I would've loved to have arrested but it didn't happen.
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Registered: 02-08-2005
Mon, 05-09-2005 - 2:05pm

((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))


Ok there you go lol.

5yrssm 
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Registered: 11-12-2003
Mon, 05-09-2005 - 2:43pm

Document and report everything, baby.

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 05-09-2005 - 4:31pm
Hello: I just talked to his supervisor...u wouldn't believe this? He said,"that whatever he does on his personal time is his own business?" Can u believe that horse crap...golly...so I told him I wanted it in black n white what he just stated..n told him that if his so called employee decides to kill me or the children..I'll have every right to sue their a*&^*& and I also told him...thank you..but believe I ain't stopping here I am going all the way up until u do something about him, cuz he was using govt phones to harass me...too. Wow, that was just something else...I'll keep u updated I am writing to the personnel dept...to see what he can do..