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| Tue, 06-20-2006 - 3:31pm |
...for the judge's decision. It's been over a month and still nothing. It's terrible sitting on pins and needles waiting to find out if we presented enough proof that he did something to his daughter.
The judge ordered his supervised visits to continue, but because his lawyer threw enough mud on my parents, they're also required to be supervised (although only by me, he needs to be supervised by a professional until he finds someone to be approved and trained by DDs therapist). I'm just concerned that the judge will determine there isn't enough evidence or that maybe the mud his lawyer threw was true and behind dd disclosure. Even though he lied about doing drugs (and other things) on the stand and the judge caught him, she may not make the leap that he was lying about him not doing anything to his daughter. I'm really scared that she will allow him to have both daughters unsupervised.
And he's still living in the house while my daughters and I are living with my parents. The house is up for sale, but he delayed so long getting the major things fixed, we missed the real estate boom. Now it's down to just taking whatever we can get, but still no offers. I'm still paying for half of the morgage and additional loans so I don't have enough money to move out on my own. I asked my lawyer about getting him out so the girls and I can move in and fix up the rest of the stuff, but nothing so far. And he signed again with a realtor that I didn't want. I haven't signed anything, he did it on his own. Apparently it is perfectly legal for him to do that, but it is really stupid on the part of the realtor if I really wanted to be nasty and refused to sign when he found a buyer. I won't, but still frustrating that he's purposely keeping me out of it. And the realtor refuses to call me, I have to call him to get updates.
I'm just getting frustrated. I just seem to be waiting...waiting for the judge to rule, waiting for my daughter to talk to her counselor, waiting for the counselor to actually say she thinks it happened and he did it, waiting for the house to sell, waiting to buy my new house, waiting to start my new life. Is there light at the end of the tunnel?
Thanks for reading and letting me vent.
