Thank you all for your support

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Registered: 08-10-2004
Thank you all for your support
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 8:49am
I wanted to thank all of you for your support. What a shoulder to lean on this message board has been. It helped me see things that I was ignoring for five years. Thank you, Thank you!

I am in the process of leaving despite the reaction of my H, I could care less at this point. I am searching for a lawyer who is tough and can handle my H's smooth talking. (My husband was trained in law and can talk down anyone. he thinks he is quite the intellectual. UGH!) There are some local and some in the city. I want one who has experience with internationl divorces since that is what this will be. So I am not leaving until I speak with a lawyer. But today I collected all my important papers and plan to make photocopies of letters from his ex-wife ( they mention some of the mental/verbal abuse I have suffered as well).

I think he felt something was up but I gave him a present and now he is back to normal. Sweet one moment and criticizing my weight the next. He is making it very easy for me to leave. I geuss that is one good thing about his nasty personality!