thank you for help and kindness

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-08-2004
thank you for help and kindness
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Sat, 05-28-2005 - 8:34am
Thank you all for good advice and kindness. We are moving in a few days and I want to say that I am glad to have come to this site and to chat discussions. I had a good plan but he found out what I had planned from phone calls I had made that showed up on the bill. I denied it but he still thinks I was trying to leave. He has not left my side much at all since then (he is finished with work here). If he does leave he takes at least one of the children with him (like this morning). I had a miscarriage and lost the baby. He has not been violent since that day. The doctor said I will not be able to have another child. My advice is that I pray that anyone who reads this will find strength to leave abuse before it is too late. If you are able to leave please do, it is too late for me but not for you. Thank you for being so nice to me.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2005
Sat, 05-28-2005 - 10:25am

I am very sorry for your loss. I too had a miscarriage, when I was almost 19, not DV related. There's no feeling like losing a child, no matter how far along in the pregnancy you are. I was 8 weeks.

{{HUGS}}

Lori

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2005
Sat, 05-28-2005 - 11:19am
I am so, so, sorry to hear about the loss of your baby.
5yrssm 
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Registered: 06-06-2003
Sun, 05-29-2005 - 5:36am

Wife,

Good luck to you. You are a strong woman and hopefully someday you will be able to escape. At least now you have the doctor to back you up on not having any more children. My prayers are with you!

Terry