thought my clothes had grew legs LOL....

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thought my clothes had grew legs LOL....
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Mon, 02-27-2006 - 10:34am
or else I was going crazy ...for a week or so I have been missing most of my decent outfits...and was left with old t shirts and torn levis etc....UNTIL I started looking in the closet ,and low and behold there they were ,most of them ripped to shreads in a garbage bag ....Thank goodness he only destroyed some ...bc Lord knows I cant afford to buy more right now ....I guess he thoguht I would either stay home all the time bc I had nothing to wear ,or go out looking like a bum ....I have to laugh at this LOL

Even though he tells me its not my fault... I cant help but feel it is in some way ,...he did tell me he needed me to do more, and that he wasnt feeling connected to me because of the distance ...But he really didnt give me a c

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Tue, 02-28-2006 - 10:25am
""LOL""????? I wouldn't LOL about it: I'd go to the cops. When will he go from slicing up your belongings to damaging YOU? This is no laughing matter, not in the least: this is sick, dangerous behavior. Get help. And start to create a paper trail and records of this sort of thing.
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Tue, 02-28-2006 - 11:25am
well,I had to either laugh or cry,so I was tired of crying ....this was a few weeks ago when he did this ...and NOW he is NOT allowed in my house ....when he sees the kids ,I take them and drop them off (they are with other people at the time as well)....and the phone cals have really slowed down too....I am waiting for the bottome to fall out real soon,,,bc things are so quiet right now that it kinda makes me worry...you know what they say "ITS ALWAYS CALM BEFORE THE STORM"

Even though he tells me its not my fault... I cant help but feel it is in some way ,...he did tell me he needed me to do more, and that he wasnt feeling connected to me because of the distance ...But he really didnt give me a c

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Tue, 02-28-2006 - 2:17pm

I agree with Phoenixangle, this is not a laughing matter. I understand not wanting to cry either, but the calm before the storm is not something to be waiting for. I too am scared for you, be safe,

Luv, Sherry

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Tue, 02-28-2006 - 6:49pm

Totally agreeing with all of you re: the laugh/cry dilemma, the paper trail, the need for caution.